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A show about life through the lens of four fierce and resilient women who lost their moms too damn soon. We’ll share stories and inspiration that will bring connection, hope and healing. Because if we work together, we can make the broken better.
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Tuesday Aug 16, 2022
Tuesday Aug 16, 2022
In today’s episode, we make a special announcement! We update you on developments in our lives and what the future of the podcast looks like.
Connect with us:
You can email the podcast at connect@piecesofyoupodcast.com.
Visit www.piecesofyoupodcast.com for links to everything we mention on the show.
Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @PiecesofYouPodcast.
Partners:
Theme song by: https://www.thegemnize.com/
Graphics Designer (logo): https://marilarsen.com/
Podcast Production company: https://micme.com/
Tuesday Aug 02, 2022
Tuesday Aug 02, 2022
Forgiveness is a process that takes time, patience and emotional balance. Today we explore the boundaries around forgiveness and how to deal with them.
The first step in this process is to understand where you are emotionally. You need to be able to identify what feelings you are experiencing, what thoughts you are having, and how these emotions make you feel. For example, if your mother died from cancer but it was not your fault, then there may be some guilt or shame around your loss.
If you can't forgive yourself for something that's not your fault then try using radical responsibility as a way of dealing with this guilt or shame. Radical responsibility means acknowledging that we have no control over everything that happens in life and that we need to be compassionate with ourselves and our need to be perfect. It's about accepting the responsibility for our choices and actions, taking care of ourselves, and letting go of the need to control or change everything.
It is important to note that forgiveness is not forgetting what happened, but choosing not to allow the event to dictate how we live our lives and how we feel about ourselves.
In episode 12 of season 2 we explore and unpack the concept of forgiveness as a process. We discuss what it really means to forgive and why it can be so difficult. As always, you’ll hear some of our own stories of loss and forgiveness, as well as ideas for understanding and practicing forgiveness in your everyday life.
Resources:
Adams, B. (1993). Please Forgive Me. On So Far So Good. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7x8wPt8xarE
The Center for the Empowerment Dynamic, https://www.theempowermentdynamic.com/about
Henly, D. (1989). The Heart Of The Matter. On The End Of The Innocence. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x_8NEKEZlQs
Kemp, C. (2019). Why Forgiveness is Unnecessary. TedXBearCreekPark. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1uJ1n8iF4zs
Sutton, J. The Psychology of Forgiveness: 10+ Fascinating Research Findings. Positive Psychology. https://www.positivepsychology.com/psychology-of-forgiveness
00:00 Introduction
2:22 The effects forgiveness have on our bodies and mental health
5:16 Defining forgiveness
6:56 Who is forgiveness for?
7:58 The importance of radical responsibility and emotional regulation for forgiveness
10:44 Dealing with boundaries around forgiveness
13:47 Another view on forgiveness: is it necessary?
19:03 Talking about receiving forgiveness for our flaws
22:02 What about self forgiveness?
Connect with us:
You can email the podcast at connect@piecesofyoupodcast.com.
Visit www.piecesofyoupodcast.com for links to everything we mention on the show.
Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @PiecesofYouPodcast.
Partners:
Theme song by: https://www.thegemnize.com/
Graphics Designer (logo): https://marilarsen.com/
Podcast Production company: https://micme.com/
Tuesday Jul 19, 2022
Tuesday Jul 19, 2022
Episode 11 of season 2 is all about children and grief. We get to speak with special guest Katie Eisold about her experience working with grieving children and families. We discuss the prevalence of grief in childhood and some of the different ways it can show up, along with ideas for supporting both grieving children and caregivers. We open up about our own experiences as grieving kids and teens, reminding others they are not alone, while also being careful to honor and recognize each person’s experience of loss as meaningful and unique.
Resources:
7 Types of Grief - whatsyourgrief.com/types-of-grief-2/
New York Life Foundation’s Bereavement Survey Findings -
newyorklife.com/assets/foundation/docs/pdfs/survey_key_findings.pdf
Dougy Center, The National Grief Center for Children & Families - Dougy.org
National Alliance for Children’s Grief (NACG) - childrengrieve.org
Brighter Days Family Grief Center (Minnesota) - brighterdaysgriefcenter.org
She Climbs Mountains & Girls Rise Up (Minnesota) - www.sheclimbsmountains.org
Helping Children Deal with Grief - childmind.org/article/helping-children-deal-grief/
Connect with us:
You can email the podcast at connect@piecesofyoupodcast.com.
Visit www.piecesofyoupodcast.com for links to everything we mention on the show.
Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @PiecesofYouPodcast.
Partners:
Theme song by: https://www.thegemnize.com/
Graphics Designer (logo): https://marilarsen.com/
Podcast Production company: https://micme.com/
Tuesday Jul 05, 2022
Tuesday Jul 05, 2022
In this episode we discuss many aspects of mothering without a mother. Each of us speak to
this topic while being in different phases of our motherhood journeys. Some topics we cover
include: Choosing motherhood, mothering skills, having a gender bias due to the trauma of
losing our mothers, putting mothering and motherhood on a pedestal, and more!
Some resources used for this episode are listed below:
Motherless Mothers by Hope Edelman
Mothering Without A Map by Kathryn Black
Children and Grief by J. William Worden
Connect with us:
You can email the podcast at connect@piecesofyoupodcast.com.
Visit www.piecesofyoupodcast.com for links to everything we mention on the show.
Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @PiecesofYouPodcast.
Partners:
Theme song by: https://www.thegemnize.com/
Graphics Designer (logo): https://marilarsen.com/
Podcast Production company: https://micme.com/
Tuesday Jun 21, 2022
Tuesday Jun 21, 2022
In Season 2, Episode 9, Guest Nea DallaValle joins us for a conversation about empathy, knowing, intuition, and trusting ourselves. We discuss how the trauma of early mother loss impacts our trust in self. We also explore the idea that the newest generations are in touch with and reliant on their knowing and intuition in new and exceptional ways.
Resources:
Nea DallaValle, Yesologist, Transformational Life Coach, Life Mastery Teacher, Intuitive Guide
Instagram: @neaclarechannel
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachNeaClare
Website: http://www.neaclare.com/
Connect with us:
You can email the podcast at connect@piecesofyoupodcast.com.
Visit www.piecesofyoupodcast.com for links to everything we mention on the show.
Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @PiecesofYouPodcast.
Partners:
Theme song by: https://www.thegemnize.com/
Graphics Designer (logo): https://marilarsen.com/
Podcast Production company: https://micme.com/
Tuesday Jun 07, 2022
Tuesday Jun 07, 2022
In this episode, we discuss mother loss that happens later in life. All four of us hosts have only experienced early mother loss when we were children, and so this perspective is new for us. We explore our guest Karen’s mother loss as an adult. We talk about her dual parent loss, family dynamics, responsibilities of an adult child who has lost a parent, and her relationship with her own daughter throughout these experiences.
Connect with us:
You can email the podcast at connect@piecesofyoupodcast.com.
Visit www.piecesofyoupodcast.com for links to everything we mention on the show.
Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @PiecesofYouPodcast.
Partners:
Theme song by: https://www.thegemnize.com/
Graphics Designer (logo): https://marilarsen.com/
Podcast Production company: https://micme.com/
Tuesday May 24, 2022
Tuesday May 24, 2022
In this episode our friends and widowers, Troy and Chris, share about their wives, their love stories, how their children have handled loss, and how they keep their wives' memories alive.
Connect with us:
You can email the podcast at connect@piecesofyoupodcast.com.
Visit www.piecesofyoupodcast.com for links to everything we mention on the show.
Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @PiecesofYouPodcast.
Partners:
Theme song by: https://www.thegemnize.com/
Graphics Designer (logo): https://marilarsen.com/
Podcast Production company: https://micme.com/
Tuesday May 10, 2022
Tuesday May 10, 2022
In Season 2, Episode 6, we return to our archives and offer you an episode recorded last year in which we dive into the origins of Mother’s Day. We discuss celebrating Mother’s Day before and after the deaths of our moms, how some of us show up as both mothers and daughters, and our desire to reclaim Mother’s Day. We end by each of us gifting a message to our listeners.
Resources:
“The Mother” by Khalil Gibran
The most beautiful word on the lips of mankind is the word “Mother,” and the most beautiful call is the call of “My mother.” It is a word full of hope and love, a sweet and kind word coming from the depths of the heart. The mother is everything – she is our consolation in sorrow, our hope in misery, and our strength in weakness. She is the source of love, mercy, sympathy, and forgiveness….
Everything in nature bespeaks the mother. The sun is the mother of earth and gives it its nourishment of heart; it never leaves the universe at night until it has put the earth to sleep to the song of the sea and the hymn of birds and brooks. And this earth is the mother of trees and flowers. It produces them, nurses them, and weans them. The trees and flowers become kind mothers of their great fruits and seeds. And the mother, the prototype of all existence, is the eternal spirit, full of beauty and love.
Connect with us:
You can email the podcast at connect@piecesofyoupodcast.com.
Visit www.piecesofyoupodcast.com for links to everything we mention on the show.
Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @PiecesofYouPodcast.
Partners:
Theme song by: https://www.thegemnize.com/
Graphics Designer (logo): https://marilarsen.com/
Podcast Production company: https://micme.com/
Tuesday Apr 26, 2022
Tuesday Apr 26, 2022
In this Episode 5 of Season 2, we discuss the impact of our mother wounds, breaking cycles, and healing the mother wound.
Resources:
The Mother Wound (mindbodygreen.com): a concept that speaks to the generational pain inherited and passed down between grandmothers, mothers, and daughters caused by living in a patriarchal culture that's oppressive toward women.
Impacts of our Mother Wounds: https://www.theprojectlotus.org/blog/the-mother-wound
What is healing the Mother Wound? (Bethanywebster.com)“Healing the Mother Wound is ultimately about acknowledging and honoring the foundation our mothers provided for our lives so that we can then fully focus on creating the unique lives that we authentically desire and know we are capable of creating.”
Connect with us:
You can email the podcast at connect@piecesofyoupodcast.com.
Visit www.piecesofyoupodcast.com for links to everything we mention on the show.
Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @PiecesofYouPodcast.
Partners:
Theme song by: https://www.thegemnize.com/
Graphics Designer (logo): https://marilarsen.com/
Podcast Production company: https://micme.com/
Tuesday Apr 12, 2022
Tuesday Apr 12, 2022
In Season 2, Episode 4 we discuss the mother wound concept and how it relates to body image. We talk about the intersection of the patriarchy, intergenerational legacy, and attachment theory. A backdrop of scarcity in a culture that tends to devalue women that can lead to distortions in the mother-daughter relationship. We discuss the the mother/food connection that shows up from the womb to adulthood, and how this can relate to some eating disorders that show up.
We share personal anecdotes about body comparisons between us and our mothers, negative comments and perceptions of comments about our bodies, and how body judgement plays a role in our family structures today.
Resources:
Stacy Saindon:
hello@stacysaindon.com
www.grievelovewell.com
Insatiable Podcast, Ali Shapiro and Bethany Webster: https://alishapiro.com/food-body-our-moms-bethany-webster/
Bethany Webster website: https://www.bethanywebster.com
The Emily Program: https://www.emilyprogram.com
Connect with us:
You can email the podcast at connect@piecesofyoupodcast.com.
Visit www.piecesofyoupodcast.com for links to everything we mention on the show.
Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @PiecesofYouPodcast.
Partners:
Theme song by: https://www.thegemnize.com/
Graphics Designer (logo): https://marilarsen.com/
Podcast Production company: https://micme.com/